Advocacy
Sometimes, people assume Deaf parents are naturally outspoken or always ready to fight for access.
The reality is that many of us would rather spend our time parenting than chasing things that should already be in place.
I've written emails, attended meetings, followed up on requests, and explained access needs more times than I can count.
Not because I enjoy doing it.
Because some things don't move unless someone speaks up.
Assumption:
"Deaf parents always have to fight for access."
Truth:
"We shouldn't have to."
What often gets missed is that advocacy usually begins when access has already been overlooked.
Most parents aren't asking for special treatment.
They're asking for their children to have the same opportunities as everyone else.
Advocacy isn't the role I wanted.
It's the role I sometimes need.
My children deserve access without me having to fight for it.
What motivates you to advocate for change in your own life or community?
This reflection comes from my experience as a Deaf parent. It reflects one family's reality, not every Deaf family's experience.
